Narcissistic personality disorder is
found more commonly in men. The cause is unknown but likely involves a
combination of genetic and environmental factors.
The term comes from a character in Greek mythology;
called Narcissus. He saw his reflection in a pool of water
and fell in love with it. It is characterized by an extreme sense of
self-worth. Other features include being quick to anger and prone to
irritation. For a diagnosis, the symptoms must be persistent and chronic.
The hallmarks of Narcissistic Personality Disorder
are grandiosity, a lack of empathy for other people, and a need for
admiration. Narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) is best described as a
paradox. People with NPD may act superior and confident, but are often
fragile and lack self-esteem. They crave attention and praise yet are
unable to form close relationships. NPD causes great distress to both the
person with the disorder and those around them.
People with this condition are frequently described as
arrogant, self-centered, manipulative, and demanding. They may also have
grandiose fantasies and may be convinced that they deserve special treatment.
These characteristics typically begin in early adulthood and must be
consistently evident in multiple contexts, such as at work and in
relationships.
It's not known what causes narcissistic personality
disorder. As with personality development and with other mental health
disorders, the cause of narcissistic personality disorder is likely complex.
Narcissistic personality disorder may be linked to:
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Environment ― mismatches in parent-child
relationships with either excessive adoration or excessive criticism that is
poorly attuned to the child's experience
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Genetics ― inherited characteristics
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Neurobiology — the connection between the
brain and behavior and thinking
People with NPD often try to associate with other
people they believe are unique or gifted in some way, which can enhance their
own self-esteem. They tend to seek excessive admiration and attention and have
difficulty tolerating criticism or defeat.
They exhibit five or more of the following traits,
which are present by early adulthood and across contexts:
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A grandiose sense of self-importance
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Preoccupation with fantasies of unlimited success,
power, brilliance, beauty, or ideal love
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Belief that one is special and can only be
understood by or associate with special people or institutions
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A need for excessive admiration
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A sense of entitlement (to special
treatment)
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Exploitation of others
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A lack of empathy
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Envy of others or the belief that one is
the object of envy
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Arrogant, haughty behavior or attitudes
Researchers have reported associations between NPD and
high rates of substance abuse, mood, and anxiety disorders.
Psychotherapy is the key approach in the treatment of
narcissistic personality disorder.
People with NPD tend to
be self-obsessed, believing others are the problem, so many see no reason to
attend counselling. They can interpret encouragement to seek help as criticism,
and respond very defensively, deflecting fault onto others. A useful
technique to encourage therapy is suggesting that a shared problem or issue
exists, focussing on things you both can work through.
DISCLAIMER: All the information
being provided her has been sourced from the internet and books and some also
via personal experiences. It has no medical authentication per se so
suggestions if followed must be done in consultation with a trained mental
health professional.
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Great post.
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You are really doing all your readers a service with the information in your A-Z posts.
Thanks Lisa, I am learning a lot in the process too.
DeleteJust like physical handicaps, there are mental handicaps either for individuals themselves or for others because of some body's mental disorders. The narcistic people can make life hell for others in the family as well as in work places. Good to know from your article.
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I would not use the word handicap but yes mental disorders can be tough.
DeleteI have heard about Narcissus but I had never heard about the syndrome. Thanks for the information.
ReplyDeleteYes Reema, Narcissus of course is quite popular.
DeleteThis has been a hot topic in mymy life recently with a few friends stuck in relationships with people having these exact traits.
ReplyDeleteThey in turn tend to gaslight the people they are in a relationship with, making them dependant.
I know it sounds bad but I don't really even see therapy working with such people. The idea of using a 'shared problem exists' is new to me though.
Yes Roshan sadly this is one of the most difficult disorders to treat because the sufferer won1 even admit having an issue.
DeleteYou have given an extremely detailed explanation of a narcissist personality. I realise I do have a couple of such people around me.
ReplyDeleteAll of us do ,novice soul.
DeleteVery nice topic discussed.Loved reading it.
ReplyDeleteThanks Jyotirmay for your constant support.
DeleteYou explained it well ! An informative post
ReplyDeleteThanks Vidhya
DeleteAll think Narcissism is self love but it stems from insecurity. Thanks for the insights.
ReplyDeleteHi Pooja - Good post. A very relevant one. I can see many people who have this. Sometimes they have such disastrous effects on others!
ReplyDeleteHarjeet while self-love is a positive thing here we are talking about a disorder.
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