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Thursday, October 13, 2016

I am fine ?




Depression is a dark hole
a quagmire
which sinks further
with every attempt
to come out

one friendly hand extended
one kind gesture
one persistent query- 
tell me? tell me?

could change the rhetoric
from false
"I am fine"

no judgement
no quick solutions
just empathy and listening

could be the straw
the drowning one hold tight
your one word
could save a life.

There is something called the DUCK SYNDROME, people who apparently appear calm and at peace on the surface just like gliding ducks may in fact be dealing with constant conflict and turmoil, just like the fervent flipping of their feet by ducks beneath the surface, just to keep afloat.

India leads the world in both #depression and #suicide statistics, proving that our so called closely knot family and societal structures are of no or little help to #mentalhealth victims.

The fact that a scandal or MMS would get more views than this depression awareness video even after having the support of a major mainstream celebrity shows our disinterest and apathy towards mental health patients.

Look around, ask again and again and again. Your asking may melt the ice, may save a life.




#DobaraPoocho


Tuesday, October 4, 2016

Too Little, Too Late





The little happy girl in school
You called dark/fat/ugly /slow
The intelligent girl in middle school
You would make fun of for her body hair
Or carrying sanitary pads in her school bag
The high school girl whose dirty graffiti
You made in the toilet
Because she refused to kiss you
The college classmate you defamed
Because she refused to sleep with you
The girlfriend you hit and abused
Because you had intimate videos and photos
The colleague you harassed online
Because she was better at the job
The wife you exploited and ruled over
Because she could never leave the kids
The child you killed unborn
Because she was a daughter
The sister you never allowed any choice
Because she meant "honor"
The daughter-in-law you never supported
Because your son was a bully like you

They were all DEVI
or none of them is
A few plates of halwa and poori

Is too little,too late.

Monday, September 12, 2016

Circle




A friend reminiscences about her grandfather
And the memories are the same
That my daughter has of my late father
Piggy banks, secret treats, stories of once upon a time

Time the smooth operator
Parents become grandparents and memory
Friends, siblings, cousins
Now all aunties and uncles, mom and dads

we lose people to death and to life
and we gain a few along the same ride

Age keeps ticking like a silent clock
We are all in a circle

Called life.

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