TRIGGER ALERT: The following
post talks about suicide, if you have had a history of self-harm or suicidal
tendencies or someone close to you has, please use discretion while reading
this or avoid it , as this could act as an unintended trigger.
Every 40 seconds, someone, somewhere in
the world, dies by suicide. Close to 800 000 people die due to suicide every
year. Suicide is a global phenomenon and occurs throughout the lifespan.
There are indications that for each adult
who died by suicide there may have been more than 20 others attempting suicide.
Suicide is when people
direct violence at themselves with the intent to end their lives, and they die
because of their actions. It’s best to avoid the use of terms like
“committing suicide” or a “successful suicide” when referring to a death by
suicide as these terms often carry negative connotations.
A suicide attempt is when people harm
themselves with the intent to end their lives, but they do not die because of
their actions.
For people with severe depression, it is not uncommon
to think about suicide. Suicide often stems from a deep feeling of
hopelessness. The inability to to see solutions to problems or to cope with
challenging life circumstances may lead people to see suicide as the only
option to what is really a temporary situation. What must be re-asserted :
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Suicides are preventable.
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It is okay to talk about suicide.
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Asking about suicide does not provoke
the act of suicide. It often reduces anxiety and helps
people feel understood.
Warning signs
that someone may be seriously thinking about suicide:
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Threatening to kill one self.
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Saying things like "No-one will miss
me when I am gone."
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Looking for ways to kill oneself, such as
seeking access to pesticides, firearms or medication, or browsing the internet
for means of taking one’s own life.
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Saying goodbye to close family members and
friends, giving away of valued possessions, or writing a will.
Who is at risk of suicide?
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People who have previously attempted
self-harm, suicide.
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Someone with depression or an addiction
problem.
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Someone suffering from severe emotional
distress.
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Someone suffering from chronic pain or
illness.
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Someone who have experienced war,
violence, trauma, abuse or discrimination.
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Someone who are socially isolated or
discriminated against.
What you can do
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Find an appropriate time and a quiet place
to talk about suicide with the person you are worried about. Let them
know that you are there to listen.
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Encourage the person to seek help
from a professional, such as a doctor, mental health professional, counsellor
or social worker. Offer to accompany them to an appointment.
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If you think the person is in immediate
danger, do not leave him or her alone. Seek professional help from the emergency
services, a crisis line, or a health-care professional, or turn to family
members.
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If the person you are worried about lives
with you, ensure that he or she does not have access to means of self-harm (for
example pesticides, firearms or medication) in the home.
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Stay in touch to check how the person is
doing.
Knowing how to get help for a friend posting suicidal
messages on social media can save a life. Many social media sites have a
process to report suicidal content and get help for the person posting the
message. In addition, many of the social media sites use their analytic
capabilities to identify and help report suicidal posts. Each offers different
options on how to respond if you see concerning posts about suicide.
For
example:
Facebook Suicide Prevention webpage
can be found at www.facebook.com/help/594991777257121/
[use the search term “suicide” or “suicide prevention”].
DISCLAIMER: All the information
being provided her has been sourced from the internet and books and some also
via personal experiences. It has no medical authentication per se so
suggestions if followed must be done in consultation with a trained mental
health professional.
References:
This is a topic dear to me for many reasons. I write on it every year on World Suicide Prevention Day
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Suicide must never come to the mind 😊
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This is one of the sensitive issues.. I have seen one or two such cases in our acquaintances.
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